September 23, 2021•100 words
Trauma cannot be moved, trauma can be reduced, trauma can be multiplied and trauma can be shared.
Trauma thrives on a cycle of abusiveness, gaslighting and lack of people to confide and help. That doesn't mean you should play junior therapist. The system needs real therapy by real trained people. They may also need a shift from their abusive environment.
Some abusive environments are 'lightly' abusive in that the abuse compounds over time, whereas other abuse is much more apparent to outsiders.
Either way the abuse is horrific and can lead to invisible scars that are ignored because they're invisible.