关于理想自我与虚假自体
July 4, 2025•12 words
内在抵抗是外界伤害的源头
只有当我们否认自己身上的某些部分时，他人的评价才会构成致命的杀伤力
对自己诚实，外界的声音就失去了伤害我们的力量
accept who i am then i can change..
如果我控制不了自己的生活，别人就会按照他们的意思给我定位，主动权永远在我自己手中，完全取决于我是否发挥自我意志。
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