7 Texts That Make Them Want More with You

Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOtGZ49eqQ8

#1) The Date Setup

"Lol. Are you as funny in person as you are in text?"

Good for letting someone else take charge on planning the date. This builds attraction because you've created playful tension, and that you can flirt without pressure.

#2) The Cheeky Follow-up

Perfect for flirting after a date. After going separate ways after a drink date.

"I hope you managed to enjoy the rest of your night without me 😏"

"I hope you managed to enjoy the rest of your day without me 😏"

It's more powerful than validation seeking because it shows you have an edge in a sincere way.

#3) The Desire Reaction Text

For when someone sends you a compliment over text, such as a comment on a picture or telling you that they could not stop thinking about you since the other night...

DON'T SAY THANK YOU, BECAUSE THAT'S PLATONIC LANGUAGE

"You're making me blush in public over here... 😊"

^ this leads more towards a feminine energy, so better to get this back from a woman

The next time they text me something confusion or I need help with the conversation I'm in right now?

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#4) The Cute Bid for Affection

When you want to show your adorable side, both flirtatious and cute.

Woman: "My friend just made me watch Insidious...I need a cuddle."

Men version: "Just watched Insidious...Not ashamed to admit I could have use you to hide under the covers with.

This ignites the protective instinct in the person to whom you're reaching out.

#5) The Reluctant Mind Take-Over

After a 2nd or 3rd date. Both vulnerable and confident at the same time.

Man version: "I keep thinking about you, and it's annoying me. 🙄"

Woman version: "I keep thinking about you and last night. It's annoying. 😏"

BEING STUCK IN NICE-MODE DOES NOT CREATE DESIRE.

This builds attraction and leaves them wanting more. That they've gotten under your skin and that you hate it.

#6) The Hot Callback

Great for complementing them while also creating tension. DESIRE LANGUAGE. callback to something that's already happened. Reference something ordinary that they did and say that it was hot. Take the ordinary and make it sexy.

Women version: "I just remembered when you opened the car door for me last night... that was hot."

Man version: "Just remembered when you beat me a GoldenEye last night... That was hot."

Builds attraction because it makes the other person feel seen and admired.

#7) The Confidence Smackdown

Great for someone who reaches out after being off the radar for a few days. People have been inconsistent. And then they show up with something like "thinking of you...". If they've been flaky, that's a bit to generous, right?

Respond with: "Well, obviously...💁‍♂️"

^ especially if they've been a bit quiet, shows that you are unaffected, and it avoids validating someone's behavior by showcasing that you've been thinking of them too, that's too much reward for flaky behavior -

It signals that you are not sitting by their phone, and that you expect to be thought of, but you are not going to keep thinking about someone who doesn't put in more effort. Attraction is built in moments.