Husbands, Love Your Wives by Abhikesh@fb

The most unfortunate man in the world is the one who, in trying to maintain relationships with everyone in the family, ends up weakening his bond with his own wife.

A man's wife is his goddess, and when she feels honored, the entire home is filled with abundance. She chooses him because she believes in him-not just as a provider, but as a protector of her soul, a keeper of her peace. Yet, when he fails to stand by her, when he prioritizes pleasing others over nurturing her, he unknowingly lets cracks form in the foundation of his home.

A man is not just a husband; he is the anchor of his wife's trust. When he wavers, when he lets his family's expectations dictate his love, she begins to feel unseen, unheard. No woman enters marriage to fight for her rightful place. She desires a love where she is cherished, where her presence is not taken for granted but celebrated.

Marriage is not just about coexisting; it is about thriving together. A woman who feels loved and protected by her man pours that same love into every corner of the home. Her warmth becomes the strength of the household. But when she feels abandoned emotionally, the very energy of the home begins to shift. No wealth, no external validation can replace the harmony that a nurtured wife brings.

A husband who constantly seeks to satisfy the demands of others while leaving his wife emotionally starved is not fulfilling his divine role. Family is important, but no relationship should come at the cost of the one who holds his heart. A man must remember that his wife is not an outsider to his family-she is his family. She left everything behind to walk beside him, trusting that he would stand beside her too.

Many men unknowingly betray their wives, not through infidelity but through neglect. They assume she will always understand, always adjust, always endure. But even the strongest woman craves reassurance. She needs to know that she is his priority, not an afterthought.

When a man honors his wife, he does not just honor her-he honors himself. He upholds the vows of love, protection, and loyalty. He sets an example for his children, teaching them what true partnership looks like. A son who sees his father standing up for his mother will grow up to be a man who respects his own wife. A daughter who witnesses her father's devotion will never settle for less than she deserves.

It is a man's duty to shield his wife, not just from the world outside, but from any pain that could arise within their own home. A wife should never feel like a guest in her own marriage, constantly seeking validation or fighting for space in her husband's heart. She should feel secure in the love that was promised to her.

A wise man understands that a marriage flourishes when a woman is at peace. When she smiles with ease, when her eyes shine with trust, when her heart is at rest-this is when a home truly thrives. The love she receives is the love she multiplies.

The strongest man is not the one who pleases everyone but the one who protects the woman who stands beside him. When a wife feels honored, she blesses not just her husband but generations to come. A man who truly understands this truth will never allow anyone to create distance between him and the woman he vowed to love for a lifetime.

• Abhikesh@fb

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