Rules For Chastity

Basic Terms

• These rules will remain in place by agreement of both Sir and sub

• Sir has the right, at any time, to have a break period from these Rules for a duration he sees fit.

• sub may request a break period in exceptional circumstances, but it will only apply if agreed to by Sir.

• The Cage can always be removed for:

  • Cleaning of the cage and genitals, once each 24 hour period;
  • Unavoidable sport and physical activity that require it;
  • Health reasons;
  • Avoiding involvement of someone to whom it would be inappropriate to expose to this kink.
    

• Sir can tell and discuss sub's Chastity and progress with others, entirely as he pleases.

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Standard Practice

Goals for sub

• To maintain sub's libido and exploration of Chastity;
• To encourage sub to pay attention to Sir's needs;
• To enhance communication of sub's desires with Sir;
• To help sub better tolerate and familiarise himself with his Cage;
• To use sub's wearing of the Cage as an opportunity to develop his skills in prostate stimulation;
• To build tolerance for Chastity practice such that sub can then undertake periods of Enhanced Rules.

Rules

• The spirit of these Standard Practice Rules will generally be observed at all times.

• sub may chose to log his progress, but this will not be enforced.

• sub will wear his Chastity Cage most of the daytime. It is expected that this will be the majority of days each week, e.g. >4 of 7.

• The majority of the time and when together, sub will present to Sir for locking and removal of the cage. However, for efficiency sub can at times choose to do this himself.

• sub may choose to wear his Cage overnight, but this will not be enforced.

• sub can remove his Cage for additional cleaning as he sees fit.

• sub can undertake penile and prostate masturbation, but he should inform Sir beforehand that he is undertaking these activities and should not do so at the expense of the attention he provides to Sir. sub should not forget his goal to pursue the benefits of prostate stimulation.

• sub and Sir should continue their normal sexual relationship.

Enforcement

• sub may choose the Cage he wishes to wear.

• sub will retain acess to a key for his Cage.

• Breaches of these Rules could result in punishment of sub. Punishment types, means, and severity are entirely at Sir's discretion.

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Strict Periods And Enhanced Rules

Goals for sub

• to further his submission to Sir;
• to force him to engage and achieve more through prostate stimulation;
• to tolerate his Cage better overnight;
• to ensure sub's attention, affection, and sexual activity is directed towards Sir, for Sir's benefit.

Rules

• sub will at times find these Rules hard to adhere to fully. Rules that are easy to follow have no value and do not require submission.

• Although the Rules can still be modified by mutual agreement, any Rule modifications during Strict Periods will only apply after a 24-hour cooling off period. The bar for rule modification is expected to be high.

• These Enhanced Rules will remain in place for an agreed period. This period may be extended by Sir as a punishment (see Enforcement below). sub must not abuse his priviledge to request a break period during these times.

• sub should strive to wear his Cage overnight and Sir can at times insist this is attempted. However, sub can request to be excused this demand, but a penalty should be expected. This could either be an extension to the duration that Enhanced Rules will apply, or be taken in to account when determining other punishments.

• Although the Cage can be removed for sport and physical activity that require it (e.g. martial arts, bouldering, or swimming), this will not by default include activities such as attending a gym, running or cycling. If necessary, sub can make a request to Sir to justify any additional removals for sport, but he must receive approval before the activity commences.

• sub will be instructed when to remove his Cage for cleaning each day. He can request additional removals for cleaning, granted at Sir's discretion.

• Any legitimate removal of the Cage outlined in the Basic Terms will be for the minimum required period. If this is done when sub is away from Sir, removal and replacement of the Cage will be communicated at the time via text, photo, or video. Sir has the right to check in this way with sub at any time to ascertain whether the Cage is in place, and determine the reason why if it is not.

• All other removals of the Cage will be on Sir's instruction.

• sub is not allowed to stimulate, self-pleasure, edge, or ejactuate through penile masturbation on his own accord. sub may not request penile pleasure or orgasms. sub must not make cleaning and any unsupervised unlocking/locking processes pleasurable.

• Prostate self-stimulation, pleasure, and orgasm may be requested and attempted if Sir grants permission. This can be using a prosate massge aide if needed, but the Cage must not be removed.

• Any other stimulation, pleasuring, masturbation, ejaculations, penetration, or orgasms by whatever means, are entirely at Sir's instruction. Penile stimulation will generally not be done by sub's own hand, unless specifically directed.

• sub will not request but always await Sir's instruction before ejaculating. If he is being stimulated, sub will communicate with Sir how close he to ejaculating and refrain from continuing until told. Any ejaculation without instruction will be considered an infraction of these Rules.

• Sir can require sub to consume any ejaculate Sir or sub produces.

• sub will be available and endevour to proactively satisfy Sir's desires, fantasies, and sexual needs whenever, wherever, and however Sir requires it. sub will aim to derive his pleasure from achieving this.

• Sir can overtly refer to and instruct sub as his submissive in front of others, as he pleases. This can include, but is not limited to:

  • issuing instructions to sub to perform any task, action, training, behaviour, or adopt any position asked of him;
  • remove or wear particular clothing, fetish gear, restraints or orher BDSM items. This includes being fully nude;
  • display his Cage or body for inspection;
  • sexually satisfying and engaging in sexual activity or penetration with whomever Sir instructs;
  • take instruction from others that Sir nominates;
  • answer questions truthfully;
  • being ignored;
  • receiving punishments.

Enforcement

• A metal Cage will generally be worn during Strict Periods.

• Sir may choose a lock for the Cage with only two keys - one for Sir to retain, and a second to be accessed through a wifi-controlled &/ timed closure safe box that Sir controls.

• sub is to keep a Log of his progress. This will honesty record any infractions of these rules (Rule 'breaks'), or times when he came close to this and took questionable actions (Rule 'bending'). sub can be asked to present his Log for scrutiny and judgement of his progress. sub will respond truthfully and fully to any questions on this, without concealing any of his actions. Infractions will be considerd more serious if they are not logged honestly by sub before they come to Sir's attention.

• All infractions of these Rules will necessitate punishment of sub, as will being in anyway unsatisfactory to Sir. Infractions during Strict Periods of Enhanced Rules be considered much more serious than during times of Standard Practice.

• Punishments will not only be accepted without begrudgement, but sub will thank Sir for the necessary discipline and correction of his behaviour.

• Punishment types, means, and severity are entirely at Sir's discretion. Punishments can include, but are not limited to:

  • Sir setting ordeals or tasks for sub to complete;
  • Humilation, by whatever means;
  • The denying of pleasure, orgasms, or the ruining of orgasms;
  • Corporal punishment, with or without restraint;
  • The unpleasant use of electro stimulation;
  • Adopting stress positions;
  • Containment or deprivation of sub's ability to move, see, hear, or speak, by whatever means;
  • Extensions to the length of Strict Periods;
  • The loss of other priviledges.

• Punishments may be administered even if no Rules have been broken, or as part of 'maintenace' of this agreement if Sir so wishes.

• Punishments can be administed either by Sir or a deputy of his choosing.