Attraction

Yesterday I asked you about what features you found most attractive about me.

You said, "Your big toe, your little toe, your straight teeth, and your hairy chest." I want to juxtapose your answer to one I was given the same week.

Like you said there's different levels of attraction in the different categories and they fluctuate a.k.a. ebb and flow. I can probably go through each category and explain an aspect that pertains to you. Intellectual - you have a fascinating way of seeing the world. I like how you don't just take other's opinions, you search out answers yourself. Friendship - I love our chats. I enjoy that we can tease each other and not worry too much about offending the other. We know the other will say something when it goes too far. You don't make me feel stupid especially when I don't process issues as quickly or in the same manor as you. Thank you. Emotional - you listen and help me feel safe as I share vulnerabilities and triggers. Aesthetic - You are very well built, solid chest and back and sexy calves. Etc. Etc. Etc.

Yes, the reason I asked the question was to compare the two response.

I was very hard to be validated by someone who was not you. The worst part is the validation are the things you hate about me.

It makes me feel we are fundamentally incompatible.