[92] Letting Go of Inner-Resistance
April 29, 2021•711 words
Joseph Rodrigues
The goal is to maintain an ideal state of mind; an identity or self-image that is in alignment with my vision. Along the journey of embodying that which I truly am, I may encounter inner-resistance. Inner-resistance affects my ability to maintain a flow-based journey to the destination. Whatever I need to do will reveal itself through inspiration. This inspiration is what I take and put into my projects to see them all the way to completion. During this, I may experience inner-resistance, not related to the project itself, but it's the doubt, frustration, and impatience related to my vision or the outcome that seem to convolute the day-to-day tasks. This is why it is important to let go of inner-resistance
Attributes
- Identifying with any of these three leads to more of them. However, if I do not identify with any of them, then I am able to further embody the ideal self-image
- Doubt
- Usually involved with an aspect from my past
- Frustration
- Deals with the now
- Impatience
- Looking at the vision and saying "We aren't there yet" and "I wish I had it now!"
- Doubt and impatience tends to lead to frustration
Resistance
- Letting Go // David Hawkins
- Letting go is like the sudden cessation of an inner pressure or the dropping of a weight
- It is accompanied by a sudden feeling of relief and lightness, with an increase happiness and freedom
- It is an actual mechanism of the mind, and everyone has experienced it on occasion
Detaching from Resistance
- Flow and Now
- Eckhart Tolle // The Power of Now
- "One day I'll make it." Is my goal taking up so much of my attention that I reduce the present moment to a means to an end?
- Is it taking the joy out of my doing? Am I waiting to start living?
- If I develop such a mind pattern, no matter what I achieve or get, the present will never be good enough; the future will always seem better
- Eckhart Tolle // The Power of Now
- Whenever I am waiting, whenever it may be, use that time to feel the inner body
- In this way, traffic jams and line-ups become very enjoyable
- Instead of mentally projecting myself away from the now, go more deeply into the now by going more deeply into the body
- The art of inner-body awareness will develop into a completely new way of living, a state of permanent connectedness with being, and will add a depth to my life that I have never known before
- Elements of Flow
- Clear goals at an abstract and granular level
- Doubt
- Without a vision, I may find it hard to calibrate myself towards something that is ideal
- In order to find clarity in my focus, I start with a small goal
- However, remember that the only difference between a small and big goal is our interpretation of it
- Frustration
- Over-thinking throws me out of flow and leads to frustration
- Impatience
- Instead of work for a time crunch, I must get into a deeply submerged flow and realize that the goal will be achieved when the time is right
- Immediate reporting and feedback
- Doubt
- All feedback and criticism is optimization data
- Frustration
- Maintaining that all is in contribution to my ideal vision and what may seem as challenge, failure, and loss are actually there to guide me towards the optimal path
- Impatience
- Patience comes from a different perspective of how events are unfolding
- Harmony between challenge and skill
- Doubt
- Developing a mind skill to change how I relate to experiences so I can facilitate success
- Frustration
- Maintaining an ideal state of mind allows for intelligent uses of my time
- Impatience
- By committing to a vision, I remove disempowering information which purifies me, allowing me to see growth in even the smallest of actions and events
- Action and awareness become one
- Distractions are excluded from consciousness. Fear, doubt, and indecision tapers away
- Time is distorted
- The activity and person becomes autotelic