Tuesday, 10 Oct 2023

Yeah, I did promise a friend. I mean, I've been meaning to make these videos. Since like, 10 years ago. I have received a lot of advice, but these three pieces of advice really stuck with me. I will talk about each of them in separate videos, but these three pieces of advice just still stick with me. But before I get into those, I want to talk about the advice I got from my girlfriend. She gave me this amazing advice.

A little bit of background: It's becoming hostile in the work environment over here. You get accused of something you never did, and it's getting negative over here, which is quite difficult to enjoy. There's this one person bringing all the negativity. My original plan was to just distance myself from this person since I can't really ignore them as they're always here. My girlfriend suggested something better. She told me that rather than distancing myself, why don't I try doing something nice for that person? I had not even thought about it. It's like killing with kindness in a sense. So, forgive this person and do something nice for them. Maybe their mindset will change, and they'll become better. I did that about three weeks ago. Initially, I was ignoring them, and it didn't get me anywhere until I took my girlfriend's advice. Things got better, and especially I started feeling better. This is a source of negativity that I can't handle for a long time, so it's helpful for both parties, including myself. That's just the power of advice, I would say.

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