advice

There are commonalities among all of our circumstances but the details matter. And the details of each of our situations are entirely unique and individual to us. We're the only ones who can see and account for all the variables.

An external party giving their input will inevitably be forced to draw on their own experiences which will have factors that differ from our own. We can extract wisdom but it must be applied to our situation as needed. We can't imitate others or rely on them to understand or solve our problems.