Day 097
July 1, 2021•186 words
#100Days
Life Sync
"You managed to destroy the good feelings I had for you"
It sounds like something bad, mean, or harmful that a person could do to another, but if you pause for a moment and think about it, you might be able to see that the "bad person" in that scenario is actually shedding some light into a dark room inside it's partner's consciousness.
Of course it would bring some sort of discomfort, or even rage.
That's expected.
But I believe that when someone is taking oneself seriously enough, that person puts extra effort into understanding its own emotions, instincts and reacions. It is so because that person understands that those take over control, guiding that person's decisions to whichever direction(s) they'd like to.
When two persons get together, they must be aware of all those items and their respective influences.
To sync these two individual rythms over a lifetime is quite challenging. One must be quite strong, and never forget to take the best care of oneself in such circumstances.
Maybe this is a lesson most of us need to learn.